Yeah, I haven't been posting much...still struggling as a debt slave in our Brave New World Order and Obama's changing economy...
...but I've still been thinking a lot about all the MRA related issues; the gender war, the decline of Western Civilization and all the other topics for which my eyes have been opened to in the last couple of years.
There's a lot of time to think when you're driving in traffic to and from the office.
One topic I've been thinking quite a bit though is this:
IF you do take that incredible risk in today's crazy system, and you do get married...the quality of your wife will determine the quality of your home.
She literally and figuratively BECOMES your home.
Because if she's a loving, thoughtful, kind and giving person, who cares about what you think and what you have to say, and is not intent on chattering your ear off as if you were one of her gossipy girlfriends the minute you walk in the door, and who tends the domestic chores and fills your kitchen up with wonderful smells of the forthcoming meals you savor, you cannot WAIT to get home every day.
But if she's a shrill, shrieking shrew that nags you the minute you get in the door, demands you "share the domestic load equally!" and withholds sex as a means of manipulating you, "Home" doesn't have the same ring to it..eh?
These thoughts came to me when I overheard a few woman at lunch the other day at a restaurant here in Downtown Honolulu. They were discussing the divorce one of them was in the middle of going through.
"He's such a Workaholic!"
Oh how I am sick of hearing that particular complaint from bitchy women!
I felt like leaning over and saying the following to her:
"Your husband is a workaholic because he'd rather be working late (or having an affair, or drinking himself silly with his friends) than come home to the environment you've created there! No women who knows how to treat her man will EVER be whining to her girlfriends that her husband is a "workaholic!"
A happy, pleasant wife who shows her love to her husband will have no problem making sure her husband WANTS to get out of the office or away from his work-site as soon as he possibly can, every single day to get home to the SANCTUARY you create for him!
If he doesn't come home all the time...take a look in the mirror and be honest with yourself: Would you want to come home to you?"